I’m busy too
It’s exam time, for me as much as anyone else, and my last exam is on the 19th. At that stage I should be blogging more regularly again. I just figured I’d let everyone know.
In the interest of spinning this post in the direction of advice, allow me to suggest it might be worthwhile to let the people in your life know too, if you’re busy and will have your head down for a while. Exam time (or final papers, etc.) is a perfectly valid excuse to be out of touch for a bit. It isn’t hard to explain or to justify. But if you’re going to be skimping on various relationships and commitments, even for a little while, it might be worth a brief note or conversation to indicate as much. Otherwise your family, significant others, friends and such might start to feel neglected. At least if you acknowledge that you are neglecting things, for a short while, you can show you’re thinking about them.
Don’t take for granted that everyone knows when crunch time comes, or how busy it is, or when it ends. Let the people you care about know when you’ll rejoin society again. Then you can work away in your own little corner, a little less burdened by guilt.
Jeff is the author of "What’s Wrong With University: And How to Make It Work For You Anyway," from ECW Press (April, 2007). He writes and speaks on the subject of post-secondary education in Canada. A proud alumnus of the University of Toronto Scarborough, Jeff is just wrapping up his law degree at the University of Toronto, with a combined MA in English. He has an extensive background in student representation and advocacy and a continuing interest in not-for-profit governance. He also instructs as a sessional lecturer at UTSC, teaching The Legal Environment of Business.
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